The_robot is here

[the_robot]

And no, I'm not a real robot...

Don't really know what to say, so I'm gonna start heavy.. I'm a 20 year old guy, who has never had any physical contact with girls (and I'm not gay that I know of). I kinda got myself in an online relationship about year and a half ago, with a girl that is crazy but I love even though I know she isn't what I always dreamed of, among other things because she already has a boyfriend and I'm not really into sharing... We had a really bad fight yesterday, and even though it ended up "ok", I'm feeling like there's a war inside me, that's what made me look for "love forum" on google.

So this is me.. feeling like a looser and completely messed up.

[nickzxc]

And no, I'm not a real robot...

Don't really know what to say, so I'm gonna start heavy.. I'm a 20 year old guy, who has never had any physical contact with girls (and I'm not gay that I know of). I kinda got myself in an online relationship about year and a half ago, with a girl that is crazy but I love even though I know she isn't what I always dreamed of, among other things because she already has a boyfriend and I'm not really into sharing... We had a really bad fight yesterday, and even though it ended up "ok", I'm feeling like there's a war inside me, that's what made me look for "love forum" on google.

So this is me.. feeling like a looser and completely messed up.

I'm a guy too. I'm slightly younger than you although. You should try the [URL="http://www.loveforum.net/broken-hearts-forum/"]Broken Hearts Section[/URL] or the [URL="http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/"]Love Advice Section[/URL]. You should try to gain more confidence in yourself. Have you considered making some girl friends?

Sorry man. But welcome to the forums, and I hope this'll help.

[starbuck]

Hey Robot. Welcome to LF. I am going to post a response in your thread shortly.

Also, don't feel like a loser for having a relationship problem. Look at it as a good learning experience rather than a mistake.

[the_robot]

I'm a guy too. I'm slightly younger than you although. You should try the [URL="http://www.loveforum.net/broken-hearts-forum/"]Broken Hearts Section[/URL] or the [URL="http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/"]Love Advice Section[/URL]. You should try to gain more confidence in yourself. Have you considered making some girl friends?

I used to have more female friends in highschool than males, but since I started university, I'm pretty much surrounded by guys. I don't really know how to make any friends (I mean it) and it's hard specially because I'm all day at university, work or at home with my university projects...

Hey Robot. Welcome to LF. I am going to post a response in your thread shortly.

Also, don't feel like a loser for having a relationship problem. Look at it as a good learning experience rather than a mistake.

Thanks for the welcome. It's not only the relationship problem what makes me feel like a looser, it's more like I ask too much of myself, and even when I manage to get what I asked myself, I put my goals even further, so I'm always trying to do stuff that seems impossible.

[nickzxc]

Have you tried talking to your high school friends? Maybe you guys should meet up or something. Try to set goals that are actually achievable. You should have that sense of content whenever you fulfill it.

[the_robot]

Have you tried talking to your high school friends? Maybe you guys should meet up or something. Try to set goals that are actually achievable. You should have that sense of content whenever you fulfill it.

Yeah I get it.. It's not something that would easily happen because each one of them is in a different city now, but I could try to reach them...