advice

[Dogman1234]

So I went out with this girl Megan a few times. Things were going well but we hit a speed bump where we tried some sexual stuff too early. She told me she felt weird and I understood and I felt weird too. Later that week I called to hang out again, she said yes, but the night before we hung out she called saying she still felt weird about things but I still said that we should still go out and she agreed.

Two days following that I get the call, "things are going too fast, need space, etc" in a completely nice tone with no hidden meaning behind it. I understood and took that as meaning things were essentially over, at least for then. But then I hear from one of my friends that she asked "did **** want a serious thing with me or just fun?" I took this as meaning she was still interested and thought I would be able to approach her.

But heres the kicker. That following weekend, there was a party at my apartment where she was at. I was inebriated and spoke rude things, "im not talking to you unless you talk to me" etc, which pissed her off and said she wanted to end things completely. Since then she started seeing another guy who she has been regularly hooking up with. What's worse is that once when I saw her about 2 weeks later, I told her I missed her and that it upset me that she went to him so quickly.

Well the mistakes here are obvious, not giving her space, getting inebriated, saying I missed her, etc. I've heard that I should just forget about it especially now that she has this new thing going on with this other guy, which I assume she has. But she is a great girl and I do miss having her in my life. Is there any possible way to salvage this in my favor or anything I can do?

[TAVS]

Sounds like a lost cause to me. Plenty of fish in the sea.

No, I am not a female, but I like short posts that dont take an hour to read.

[dewilliams2]

Well you told her you missed her but did you really apologize?

You could say something like "I'm really sorry for what I said to you, I was drunk, that was certainly no excuse but your a great person and I would really like to be friends with you if nothing more."....I mean yea your getting friend zoned but if it doesn't work out with her current relationship maybe it will work itself out if it also happens when your not in one and who knows.