Should I txt before visit?

[everton11]

Alright, I met this girl thru work and I invited her to go watch a soccer game two weeks ago. She initially said yes but later on txt me and said she couldn't make it. Well, we then txt each other a few times about how our weeks are and stuff.

Well, I want to visit her tomorrow at her office (we both have our own office so no co-workers will be there) and invite her to another game, do you think I should text her tonight and let her know I'm dropping by first? Or just go visit? Would it be rude if I do?

[VincenzoG91]

A surprise face-to-face visit might go poorly, because she may feel ambushed and pressured. Text her first, or maybe just instead. And if she keeps bailing on you with excuses, that is probably a sign that she isn't really interested. Not that there is any sign of that at this point, once could just be a real conflict that came up.

[misombra]

oh no. the surprise thing is a very bad idea.

[everton11]

Thanks, guys, I almost went ahead and go visit her today. I guess I will just ask her out on text.