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    She is 18, im 32

    Yeah this girl asked me out , shes hot and blonde with big ass but shes only 18. I've never been with someone that young before. Im not married and have no kids. I know shes legal and is an adult but her parents doesnt like it and some of my friends doesnt like it, not sure why. Anybody know why? I dont see what the big deal is.. Its not like shes 15 or 16... Any suggestions or advices?..

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    Hmm, I don't know I don't think there is nothing wrong with it. I dated a 28 year old and im 18 so I don't think there's nothing wrong. don't worry bout it follow ur feelings

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    Go for it, bro.

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    it's not like she's 15 or 16.. wow that is only a couple of years.. i thnk the main point that you are missing would be the point of view from her parents. reguardless of how others view it, my main concern would be what her parents thought of it. picture this, you have your only daughter..virgin or not doesn't really matter. yet she is dating something that is about 15 years older than her. almost double her age. if i were her father, my first thoughts would be why is this guy tryna get into my daughter's pants?? the age differences presents more than just physical differences. it's also mental differences. the reason why i don't date people that are far out of my age range in mentality. if we aren't on the same level, then i feel that it will never work. raverboy
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    Quote Originally Posted by asianguy4blondy
    Its not like shes 15 or 16

    Two years? Would it be different if you were 34 and she were 18? Think about it man, in that age category, age difference still matters.

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    when i met my now husband i was only 19 and he was 29....and we are great together..yeah the age difference shows sometimes but not enough to cause problems..i dont think age matters as long as you are happy.

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    Plus the fact most women these days find men their own age very immature stupid so they look for the older guy with maturity and experience to show them a new world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by asianguy4blondy
    Yeah this girl asked me out , shes hot and blonde with big ass but shes only 18. I've never been with someone that young before. Im not married and have no kids. I know shes legal and is an adult but her parents doesnt like it and some of my friends doesnt like it, not sure why. Anybody know why? I dont see what the big deal is.. Its not like shes 15 or 16... Any suggestions or advices?..
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    don't missed her just enjoy the time with her
    and don't care about the others

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    hit it!

    dun end up regretting

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    Hmm... well as far as the REASONS that you're interested in her... I won't even go there. LOL!

    BUT, there is an 8 year gap between my boyfriend and myself and it hasn't presented any problems for us. His family was very upset by it at first, though. I would say that if the age gap doesn't bother the two of you, what does it matter how others feel? Even her parents... It is good to show them RESPECT, but that doesn't mean that you two shouldn't pursue a relationship because her parents don't like it. She's an adult. They need to start treating her like one. But if you do this, be prepared to deal with a bit of ridicule. That will go away if the relationship lasts and proves them all wrong. Good luck!

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    why dont u try hanign out with her getting to know her first.
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    I'd like to point out that there is a huge double standard here. If an 18 year old guy were to date a 32 year old woman, no one would mind. Probably, in fact, his friends would congratulate him for dating a milf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by asianguy4blondy
    She is 18, im 32
    oh wow...-leaves this one alone-

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    LOL Steve... if you didn't plan to post, why'd you come in here? Come on! I'm curious as to what people have to say, especially since I'm in a similar age-gap relationship.

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