Okay, I know that I'm a dumbass, but a little insight into my prob. I went to the airport to meet a client (Japanese) he had his daughter and SIL with him. She (daughter) is very young, very pretty and very pregnant. On the way out of the terminal, she broke a heel on the pavement, and my "southern gentleman ", training kicked into gear, and I picked her up and carried her to the SUV, where my GF was waiting. GF was not amused, but was I so wrong to lend a hand? Her Dad and H aren't big men, and so could not have aided her, but as my GF pointed out, why didn't she just take off her other shoe and gone barefoot. So now GF is pissed, and I'm in the dog-house.