I have met this woman that I have fallen in love with. It's perfect. Everything is. We are already talking about marriage and being she is 39 and I'm 35 everything seems real. The openness, eveything.
But when we are about to have sex I can't perform or feel I perform badly. She use to date a black guy for 5 years and I feel I can't compete with that.


How do I get over this?