advice

[contains-acid]

hi ive never done this before but i would like some advice
me and my partner have ben together for 2 years now and it was explosive for the first year, but in the last 5 months she has become more like a mate i have tryed my hardest and taken her out and brought her flowers all the time but she only wants to be intimate on her terms and when she is ready, and that is once a month at best, if anyone could give me some advice on this it would be welcome.

thanks
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[girl68]

Have you tried talking to her once a month sex is pretty pathetic...

[QueenofCorona]

I agree with, girl. Time to talk about the situation. Find out if she's just not down with knockin the boot or if she's getting it somewhere else.

[contains-acid]

i have talked and she keeps saying it is her that has a problem but does nothing in respose to our relationship, i am starting to feel like a lodger

[girl68]

Tell her SOMETHING needs to happen or you walk. Stand by your word. What if the tables were turned and you realized that you had a problem and fully acknowledge this problem but did nothing to fix it, would you REALLY expect your partner to stick around just 'cause you can admit you have a problem? Not likely.

[Kristan]

Ask her to elaborate on what this problem is that she is having. Try to be patient and understanding. If she continues to refuse talking about it, give her an ultimatum.