Sex desensitizing oils?

[TheTooya]

A while back I made a thread about sex toys, which went great!

I tried to gravedig it but couldn't find it.

Anyhow, to anyone that has tried desensitizers, which ones do you recommend/don't recommend?

Thanks

[qwertz]

I have no idea why you would use desensitising oils, and have never even heard of them.

[warriormaiden]

WTF is that stuff? (too lazy to google)

[qwertz]

wait, are you a guy?

edit: you are a guy.

Just use lots of normal lube and go slow, it will get easier i guess (not that i have any first hand experience of something up my ass )

[dewilliams2]

If your gonna put something up your ass then don't use numbing lubes...you need to be able to feel if there is a problem....pain is a signal to stop.

To each there own I suppose.

[warriormaiden]

Ew, it numbs you??! Who would want THAT??

[dewilliams2]

Ew, it numbs you??! Who would want THAT??

Its supposed to be used with guys who fire to early...I suppose it works for them but I don't think it sounds all that enjoyable. I don't even like when I've been drinking and have reduced feeling. It takes me long enough to cum as it is. I have just the opposite problem.

I didn't even realize delayed ejaculation was a problem for a long time. I just thought I could go a long time. But not all women want to have sex quite as long as I do.

[TheTooya]

I didn't realize this topic would be confusing.

To clarify, desensitizers are oils/liquid that you put on your dick so that you don't fire off too quickly. It is not lube, it is not intended to reduce friction

@dewilliams2
I actually believe going too long is worse :p I have had that problem a couple of times, and after a while she gets dry and it will start to hurt :x

[girl68]

Where have you guys been the last 5 years?! You're supposed (qwert and dewill) be all educated in the sex department!

You use them for the basic reason to remove some sensation so you don't blow a load to soon. Has nothing to do with sticking anything up anyones ass.

I've used a tingling one for my ex, it helped him not bust too soon. I forget the brand but really any porn store will have a solid selection.

Tooya- you seem to want them for a different reason: are you wanting it so you don't blow too soon? If yes, why are you saying to dewill that you go on for too long?

[qwertz]

Cant say I have ever been with a guy that needed help to last longer.

[girl68]

clearly not all men are blessed with perfect load blowing skills.

[dewilliams2]

Where have you guys been the last 5 years?! You're supposed (qwert and dewill) be all educated in the sex department!

You use them for the basic reason to remove some sensation so you don't blow a load to soon. Has nothing to do with sticking anything up anyones ass.

I've used a tingling one for my ex, it helped him not bust too soon. I forget the brand but really any porn store will have a solid selection.

Tooya- you seem to want them for a different reason: are you wanting it so you don't blow too soon? If yes, why are you saying to dewill that you go on for too long?

Like I said I always take to long anyways...even my first time I didn't cum early. I thought I would cause thats what everybody said would happen but I didn't.

[girl68]

Masterbation has a lot to do with it. My ex wasn't all that intereted in wacking off or sex therefore his sex was short, we used desensitizing stuff for help. It helped the sex it didn't help us.

[dewilliams2]

Masterbation has a lot to do with it. My ex wasn't all that intereted in wacking off or sex therefore his sex was short, we used desensitizing stuff for help. It helped the sex it didn't help us.

Well I have plenty of experience with masturbation....although if I'm having regular sex I don't like to masturbate because I find the orgasm is much better...at least in my experience. I still last about the same amount of time. I can't go longer than 3 days though without having some release or I'll turn into Micheal Douglas in the movie Falling Down....I'm a nicer person if I can get off daily.

[TheTooya]

Tooya- you seem to want them for a different reason: are you wanting it so you don't blow too soon? If yes, why are you saying to dewill that you go on for too long?

No my general problem is blowing my load a little too quickly, I was just mentioning the times that I didn't blow my load at all were unpleasant.


As for masturbation.. that could fix the problem, however it takes time for me to get a full hard on again (maybe somewhere between 20~45 minutes?)

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That could fix it though... masturbate maybe an hour before... and sex would be much more enjoyable

Thanks girl68, thought I was going crazy that no one knew what I was talking about