Ahhh... bridezilla friend is no longer

[girl68]

For those of you who followed we had our final fallout.

Well recently I had a mini meldown and she asked about it saying she has a dark cloud over her too. I asked her what's wrong. She goes into her "poor me" list:
-I hate my job
-I'm poor
-Wedding planning sucks
-Sharkfin girl won't come
-I have a mortgage
-Parents are pressuring us to have kids soon
-Poor me
-Rich girl has such an easy life
-My friends don't love me
-I'm not special... (well if you follow the stories you'd understand WHY it's gotten to this point)

To which I respond with well it's not all bad, your man loves you, you're getting married, your life isn't all bad. Stop comparing yourself to rich people! I tell her we all have it hard just in totally different ways blah blah blah. I tell her to stop whining and she always does this about how everyones life is soo much better. She tells me she doesn't whine. But we all agree she does.

Either way she tells me she wishes I would listen instead of tell her this to which I say okay, maybe I should obviously I'm not the right person to hear this she says yeah guess not but adds I could have tried harder. I rebutt with actaully, that WAS me trying... I tell her I'm sorry she's having a tough time and that her life doesn't suck but wish her goodluck seeing through her dark cloud.

That's it I'm finished. YAY me friend cancer gone! Yeah yeah, you're all right.

[VincenzoG91]

According to Ads by Google on this page, there is a Bridezilla game. Looks like a variation on Doctor Jekyl and Mister Hyde.

Sorry to hear about your friend, but sometimes people change too much and it's better to move on.

[QueenofCorona]

Its always sad when a friendship ends but good friendships are two-sided. Doesn't sound like she knows how to be a friend a friend would like to have. Maybe she'll realize what she's lost someday.

[girl68]

Maybe but that day isn't here yet. She still thinks that sharkfin girl shouldn't have left her, her bestfriend should stay no matter what and that I shouldn't who know just shut up and listen to her whine I guess...

[Charlie Boy II]

Females seem to have a hard time being friends with each other.

[vashti]

Not if you are selective about who you make friends with...

[Mish]

Either way she tells me she wishes I would listen instead of tell her this to which I say okay, maybe I should obviously I'm not the right person to hear this she says yeah guess not but adds I could have tried harder. I rebutt with actaully, that WAS me trying... I tell her I'm sorry she's having a tough time and that her life doesn't suck but wish her goodluck seeing through her dark cloud.

Yeh, I was with a girl once who did that to me. I didn't realize I was her private butler who's duty it was to not just comfort her, but to feed her ego according to her specification. I don't tolerate those rude, disrespectful and arrogant snobs any more and you shouldn't either.

[VincenzoG91]

Yeh, I was with a girl once who did that to me. I didn't realize I was her private butler who's duty it was to not just comfort her, but to feed her ego according to her specification. I don't tolerate those rude, disrespectful and arrogant snobs any more and you shouldn't either.

Guys sometimes put up with that, in hopes of getting laid.

[girl68]

Well I have my own pussy, I dont want or need hers- so she's gonezo.

[Mish]

Guys sometimes put up with that, in hopes of getting laid.

I was getting laid with her long before she started acting like that. I don't know why I put up with it. I guess at the time she convinced me that she was right and I as a dutiful butler was doing something wrong. It's only after we broke up and the illusion of our relationship was broken when I got to see the full picture.