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Thread: Did I do the right thing?

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    Did I do the right thing?

    Hey,

    I dated my ex for a short while and then he ended it with me because he never liked me in the first place.
    I still have feelings for him, and he knows it as we had a converstation a couple of days ago, and he said it was obvious that I still liked him- because a few things happened and we were going to sleep together. He also said he didnt like me in that way, ( which is fairenough) I've tried being friends, and moving on at the same time and It's just not working. He didn't even apologize for taking advantage of my feelings, which has upset me. He said if we were friends he wouldn't mention it and it wouldn't be awkward, but I can't be friends with him, as I can't move on. So I deleted him off my facebook, and sent him and email saying I can't be friends with him, as I need to move on and in the future I'd like to be friends, but if he doesn't I will respect that. I also said that I wish him all the best and everything. But now I have sent it, I feel really stupid, although he said I could delete him and he will get out of my life, which I don't want him out of my life forever, as he is a generally nice person, but I know this is the best for me. I have to see him regualry, and I don't want it to be awkward. And I dont know how to act when I see him?
    Do you think I have done the right thing by cutting all contact of?
    I feel so stupid!

    Sorry for the essay! Any advice would be appreciated

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    You did the right thing... easiest way to get over someone is to completely, COMPLETELY, cut them from your life :/

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    It's really hard though as I'd like to be friends with him in the future, he didn't even reply to my email which makes it seem like he doesn't care...
    And when I see him, I don't know what to act like now, or he might just ignore me....

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