Should I go with him?

[keine_Engel]

I'm slightly confused on what I should do here... I hope you can help me clear my mind =)

Small background first: I live in a big city, where my boyfriend studies and has most of his friends, altough he lives 25 kms away. He hasn't got the driver's license yet, so he need to get a train to go home. When we go out at night, either to a cafe, bar, or club, he has to go away at 6.40, that's the first train he's got. So, we go out, go to my house and I stay with him until he leaves. As he depends on the trains and I don't know if he's willing to stay up until 7 am and calling his parents to pick him up at the station (4kms from his house), I usually don't invite him to go out, he invites, because he knows I'm in a more confortable situation and I'll go all the time.

During our first year together, we'd go out a lot. During our 2nd year, we calmed down a bit. I went clubbing with him on his birthday (February) and in April (3 times, we were in a finalists trip with our schools), not really much for people our age (I'm 18, he's 19).

The last time we were supposed to go out was a month ago, he had a friend's birthday (dinner) and afterwards, they went to a club. He invited me to go with him to the club afterwards (I told him I'd stay with him until 6am), but I also had a birthday of a friend of mine that same night, so, we agreed I'd stay a with my friends and then I'd meet him to stay with him until his train. (the whole night got messed up, he had to call him mom by 1 am to pick him up here, but this isn't really why I am posting).

He's got this friend who's about to break up with her boyfriend, she's very low and a few days ago he told me he'd meet her to have a chat with her, which is fine for me. Today, he asked me if I'd like to go out Friday night, I said "sure", but shortly after I realised why he was inviting me... I thought he had spoken to his friend about meeting Friday night and after meeting her, he'd get alone, so, he invited me to go out to have someone to stay with until 6am. Shortly after, he said that he was meeting her... Friday night.

I enjoy going out at night with him, as it is something that doesn't happen often. However, this next Friday, I feel like he using me just to have someone to stay with, as the last time he invited me. Because I feel he's using me, I'm not much into going. However, if I don't stay with him, he may not come to see his friend, and, if he does, he has to ask his parents to come here to take him home so, I'm really feeling confused... is it normal to feel the way I feel? What would you do if you were in my shoes?

[KirstyM]

Talk to him. Tell him it kinda feels like you're being used and see how he reacts.