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    Intimacy why is it decreasing

    hey,

    Me and my girlfriend have been going since quiet a while now and we know each other quiet well
    The problem is that i am worried about our relationship and i think that it is getting weaker on the intimacy part
    A couple of days ago we use to kiss every single day and for like half an hour or something.....I dint mention before we both
    are 16 and we are still in school.....I dont have any problem regarding to school but the problem is i always give her a hint that i wanna make out or i wanna kiss her.....She never ever tries to tell me herself about it.....Maybe she is just shy.....or maybe she might not really want to
    What i wonder is that why is it going lower does she not like making out with me anymore? because she use to love it and she told me about it too.....for me its just to awkward to take her into a class room, shut the windows and start kissing her i mean i can understand sometimes but what if i have to do that everytime it gets annoying as it feels that maybe its just me who likes being intimate while she is just doing it for me.....i cant really ask her as it would be awkward so what are some of the signs that a girl could provide in order to pass a hint that she wants to go indoors or something

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    Because that just happens over time.

    You do other stuff with her, right? You hang out with her, talk to her, etc. - don't just make out?

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    Yes i do i mean for example if we 5 hours in the day to spend with each other....i will talk to her, spend time with her, discuss issues for 4 hours and i only kiss her, hug her, etc for like less than an hour.
    The point is that i know she likes making out but sometimes i cant just figure out what she is thinking and how to get through it

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    OK, then it's a different problem.

    Stop overanalyzing things. You're 16 - just enjoy life as it comes to you.

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    Don't have a mental division in your head re time spent talking, time spent kissing etc. With my GF it's all mixed. We can be lying in the sun in my garden doing all 3. Enjoy your youth btw

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boisdevie View Post
    Don't have a mental division in your head re time spent talking, time spent kissing etc. With my GF it's all mixed. We can be lying in the sun in my garden doing all 3. Enjoy your youth btw
    I don't think he actually has a mental division - he was just giving me an example in response to my question.

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    YOu don't know her as well as you think you do seeing how you can't even talk to her about this issue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    YOu don't know her as well as you think you do seeing how you can't even talk to her about this issue.
    He's 16. Of course he doesn't.

    I don't think that matters here. There's no reason to beat down on him for it. Someone older, sure.

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