Hello users of this forum, I came here to seek your advice. I've recently turned 18 and I'm what people sometimes call a 'monster', or simply put, ugly.To be more exact I'm rather thin, 173cm (5 ft 8 in) and half Belgian - half Filipino.
I have never actually done anything like holding hands, kissing, etc... I have just never experienced love. Most people take love for granted, but for me... It's like a dream that's far away. I'm imprisoning myself in my own room because whenever go outside, I always get stared down like I'm a monster.
My heart has a big hole in it, it's the place that's supposed to be filled with love. My heart yearns for love, but how can I possibly feel what love is like if everyone runs away from me. I can't help it, I was born this way. I've made some pretty cool friends in high school and I'm pretty confident that I'll meet some nice people in college next year. So i'm not that lonely because I can get along with guys. Next tuesday I'll go to a friends BBQ to celebrate his 18th birthday and like always when I go outside, I'll see couples who are very happy to have each other. Seeing them acts like poison to my heart, it makes the hole in my heart even bigger.
My only motivation at the moment is my education so that i'll get a nice job later on. But getting a nice job isn't enough motivation sometimes. I hope that in the future, adults will look beyond my outer shell and that I will get the chanse to find my angel. For now, as an adolescent, I'm just trapped in my room everyday.
I could really use some advice in this stage of my life. My heart feels so bad, I get the feeling that my heart will be one big dark hole in the future. How can I possibly fill my desire for love? Be honest with me