Greetings,

I guess I'll introduce myself.

I'm a 32 year old boy, I've been with my wife for 14 years.
We met online during the BBS age. A year later, she told me she was going to be going to my school.
We never arranged meeting each other, we just didn't feel the need to push things.
A week later, I encountered the most aggressive, loud, and pushy girl I'd ever met. And she was hanging out with my crowd of loners/geeks.
Since I've always had a distaste for aggressive people in general, and was a fairly quiet person, she rubbed me the wrong way. I had a strong dislike for her immediately.
After about a week of feeling like my country was being invaded, I mentioned to my online friend that there was some new girl at school pissing me off.
It didn't take long to realize that, holy crap, it was her.

Somehow, after a little adjusting, we got along very well. We still don't know to this day how.
She's my opposite in almost all regards.

She was involved with other people, but I feel in love with her, and hung out all the time. Me, being my dense self, never picked up on her interest in me. She had a lot of rough years, and I was adamant about not being pushy. We used to cuddle all the time, and even slept together. (She's still mad at me for not clueing in that a girl in just their panties in the same bed as you is a clue)

As highschool ended, I still didn't have a clue, she was still dating people, and I was getting frustrated. My parents divorced, and kicked me out, and I spent the next year and half doing my own thing.
A mutual friend mentioned on day that I should get in contact with her, and shortly there after, we've been together since.


I'm fairly quiet, very reserved, and still a child.
I enjoy the kids movies as much as they do, and find entertainment in simplest things.
I work seasonal full time as a concrete truck driver, and do tech work on the side.
I love almost all types of music, if the beat catches me, I'm listening to it.
I'm an action/sci-fi fan boy, but oddly my favorite movies are not of those genres.
I love books, but rarely find the time.
I'm also a little bit of an ass. I have most of my priority's straight, and yes, I'm on the list (I have limited time/energy, and I am not nice if I feel you're wasting it. I'm also very dispassionate about things that do -not- affect my life).
I worry about money all the time, and I do not like to waste my time or energy.
I do -not- like to have to make all the choices.
I am not very aggressive and my self confidence is mediocre.
I have had a single sexual partner.
I smoke. I drink on occasion.
We have 7 children.


Regardless of how unhappy I am with my sex life, I love my wife dearly.


I'm also a complete idiot when it comes to women. I got my wife a promise ring (waaaaay back, before we were an established couple), and she got this glossy eyed look and asked 'What's this?'.
My heart stopped, I panicked. I told her it was a 'non-specific ring'. (I didn't know what a promise ring was!)
She still holds that one over my head to this day.
I just tell her, how many girls do you know with one of those? That's right, it's unique!

Yah. I'll shut up now.