I need advice, help please!!

[JonS21]

My ex-girlfriend broke things off about 2 months ago claiming that she needs time to her self. There is a child involved a 1 year old daughter and I've been finding it hard to give her time bacause of that. She wants to stay in touch to have someone to talk to but everytime I talk to her I get all these feelings that make me talk about the relationship or lack of one. She hates this, so she hurts me by saying things that she knows will hurt me. Im tired of getting my feelings hurt everytime I try to get her to understand that we can fix things together. She says I have nothing to worry about when it comes to other guys but when she is out at the time I just can't help but think negative.I love her and I dont want to push her away, but I think I am. Can someone please give me advice on how to overcome jealousy, and how to give her time to miss me and realize that Im still the man she first fell in love with.

She also claims Im too romantic what can I do about that.

[Amyejean]

There is an old saying If you love something let it go if it comes back then it was ment to be.
As I read there is a child involved and should not suffer cause she don't want a relationship. I think she is saying hurtfull things cause she don't know how to act around you so she says things like that to make herself feel better.
Whats she says don't let it bother you, let it go in one ear and right out the other.
I have the understanding that she don't want to fix the relationshi[ and if you keep pushing she is going to keep saying hurtful things. I thnk she is trying to make you relize that there is no chance and to move on.
You can love her but you can't make her love you. You can find someone better that you can spoil with romance.

Hope this helps you
Amye

[RuntimeError]

I hate to say it but I think that Amy is right on. Becasue of the simple fact that you can't make someone love you no matter how great of a person you are, you have no control over this. This was a very hard thing for me to learn and I have been on both ends. I have been loved and not loved back and I have loved and not been loved back. Love is a werid thing, nobody knows why it comes and goes, but it is definalty something that humans have no control over, and that really sucks. I have been told and I contuinaly try to just let it be, and if it is meant to be it will be, but if not well then it is not. I have tried taking things into my own hands and winning her love back but it just doesn't work like that. Who knows maybe if were a millionaire, with a limo, helicoptor and a big house, it may help your odds of getting her back. Maybe for now like Amy said and I am not one to talk because I am trying to do this, but maybe the right thing is to let go, appreciate it for what it was becasue it is all in the past.