The Famous 3 Letter Word

[guitarmannn]

"Sex"

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now and we are both 18. There have been absolutely no issues, no fights, its been perfect. We are both virgins as well. We have done pretty much everything there is to do besides the "final deed".

Its kinda an awkward thing cause we never directly talk about what we do in the bedroom in person and its kinda an assumed thing. The other night I kinda subliminally brought up sex, and she subliminally responded saying that she wouldn't do it. Now I respect her more than anything and I don't want her to do anything against her own will, but I don't understand the mindset of doing everything else except this one.

Advice from girls please??

[doppelgaenger]

Well jeeze man, how long are you going to wait? I slept with my GF the night I met her.

[Kaius]

Respect this girl. She is taking herself seriously. She is not gonna give it away so easily.
You should be good to her, and wait patiently for it.

[guitarmannn]

Respect this girl. She is taking herself seriously. She is not gonna give it away so easily.
You should be good to her, and wait patiently for it.

As I do. I'm just trying to understand it from her side of the glass.

[Mish]

Is she a virgin? Losing virginity for an 18 year old girl would be a very big thing

[guitarmannn]

Yes we both are virgins. We just talked for a few hours about it, and she says she just isn't ready. She says that she really wishes she was ready because she knows I want to and she wants to make me happy, but she just isn't ready. I'm not the kinda guy who's gonna dump her cause of it obviously, but how long am I gonna have to wait? Idk i guess I just don't see the huge difference between what we have been doing and what we could be doing. I'm absolutely not gonna pressure her and she knows that I respect her far too much to make her do anything she isn't ready for, but I guess its just a time game now and I'm willing to play.