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    I Need Serious Advise. I Seriously Have No Idea What To Do.

    Firstly, I now I have make a few thread in the past and I didn't reply. I sorry about that but I do read the comments and I appreciated everyone opinion. And yes...it the same girl again. She 2 years older than me. So recently we have attach...but the issue of age keep coming up, she mind the opinion of outsiders and friends of our relationship. She don't want to go through the turmoil, I rather fine despite facing some rude remarks...so i always keep encouraging her. But today, she told me she don't know whether she might have like someone else. She don't know. Which got me really sad and so I suggested a breakup...since i mean the word "don't know" should not have even exist in the first place. But she keep insisting it, the age that is the main problem but to me, it that "don't know" guy that is the problem to me. So to a point, I told her that it over. But then, she send me her final message, of our days together. How much she don't wish this to be over...and lastly ily. For a moment, all the hate, anger, sadness, all gone...it like I have forgive her. She told me she willing to try things all over again, and ask me whether i want to? I told her I need time alone and we be meeting tmrw. So if you will me what will you do? And what advise can you give? I am seriously mess up.

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    If she's might like someone else than you need to move on. If she's going to continue to allow outsiders to effect you guys relationship it'll never work. The age difference doesn't seem to be a problem except it bothers her about what OTHER people think. She sounds really immarture honestly and easily influenced by others. You need to see the BIG PICTURE here and not foce on these little irrelavent things.......like her final message to you. Do you honestly think it could work between you two. can she just be with you and stop worrying about what other people say about your 2 year age difference. ( which btw is not even worth mentioning in my opinion.)

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    How old are you? (This will clarify if the 2 year difference is or isn't an important one)
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
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    Yeah. How old are you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    How old are you? (This will clarify if the 2 year difference is or isn't an important one)
    I am 19 this year.

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