Ultimatum update

[4seasons]

I received an email just now from my now ex girlfriend. It reads " Title Love: I wanted to try to explain everything but I can't. I the past year you have progressed to be my best friend and the man who makes my world beautiful and worth living. I love you and I'll always love you.As it is we WAITED TOO LONG to come to the point we are now. I'm sorry that a timeline that you wouldn't put aside and my inability to ignore it has put us in this position. I just want us all, you Charlie (daughter), and I to have peace. She (daughter) wanted you to be in our family so bad and it just took us TOO LONG IN HER EYES.She wanted to know he place in our future and it was TOO MUCH FOR HER when things didn't progress to marriage.I place more blame on myself than anyone. I can't fault you for that. I also need to be true to myself. Thank you for giving me a glimpse of what true happiness could be. I love you."

I get a dear John letter from a woman who loves me enough to marry me but has to end all because her daughter is tired of waiting. Do I have to feel guilty now for not acting sooner in getting her ring? This makes me sick to my stomach. Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

[vashti]

Again, here you are blaming a child. Of course, with a mother like THAT - who refuses to take responsibility for her own decisions - I guess you feel it is okay to blame the kid, too. (rolling eyes)

[Gigabitch]

Again, here you are blaming a child. Of course, with a mother like THAT - who refuses to take responsibility for her own decisions - I guess you feel it is okay to blame the kid, too. (rolling eyes)

Please read this part ten times.

[4seasons]

Please read this part ten times.

Okay. I get it. Thank you.