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    Mentioning Marriage and the Future

    Hi. Do men usually only mention marriage and ask about the future to someone he is dating because he sees a future with her?

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    Well I'm no too sure about other men. But yes I would definitely only talk about it to someone who I see a future with. Your lucky

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    I don't think many of us really talk about it direct like a woman would, at least I didn't nor did my close friends.

    I made a joke about how my girlfriend (now Fiancee) was stuck with me for life while we were at a club one night, I'd never mentioned anything previously but in my head I knew I was keeping hold of her. I need to work on my open-ness

    If someone you are with mentioned it then I would take that as a big step unless of course you'd only been dating a couple of weeks, then it's odd.

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    Yes, I believe so. My guys said he "knew" when he wasn't phased when he spilled a bit talking about what our kids will be as they grow up. He says that was his pinnicle moment for him.

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    There are two reasons we talk about marriage:
    1.) We are considering it.
    2.) We think it'll get us laid

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    Every man I ever was involved with wanted to marry me and have kids - of course, it only happened 'once'.

    If this guy saw you are 'potential' future material, he'd be exclusive with you, NOT just dating you.

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