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    I don't know how much help I can be as I'm not nearly at the point for marriage myself, but I can certainly agree as a guy it will be very hard to be pushed into doing something. To propose to you just because you want it is not the right reason to propose. If he hasn't proposed yet, it's probably because he didn't want to yet and I'm sure the pushing on your part just made him more stubborn.

    Maybe after 5 years of dating you think that he owes it to you? I think it's pretty obvious you want different things and if you aren't happy with how things are going, I think you know what you need to do. To wait for him to change while he possibly waits for you to change your mind is just going to get you into the stalemate you are in today. You can get angry at him all you want to, but you are equally responsible in this and if you are just harboring resentment because he isn't giving you what you want, it's your fault for staying in this.

    Maybe you should consider splitting up and being on your own for a little while. Unfortunately for some it takes being on your own to really figure out what you want, but if you want to have children and a family I don't think you have very much time to waste here and should take some action soon.
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    Why did spring come and go and you didn't leave? Now he thinks you're full of shit. Now I think you're full of shit.

    If this is really important to you, then you need to either make it happen or pack your things and go. You've given him no reason to believe you when you say you'll leave him if he doesn't propose and he is clearly NEVER going to do this. This man obviously does not want to marry you. Why are you hanging around?

    If it doesn't happen in Hawaii, let your family know they'll be expected to help you move when you get back home.
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    ^This. But no point to threaten him about it. Just let him know, calmly, you are ready. If he balks its time to fold your hand. If you want children you need to get a move on and find a serious partner. Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Why did spring come and go and you didn't leave? Now he thinks you're full of shit. Now I think you're full of shit.

    If this is really important to you, then you need to either make it happen or pack your things and go. You've given him no reason to believe you when you say you'll leave him if he doesn't propose and he is clearly NEVER going to do this. This man obviously does not want to marry you. Why are you hanging around?

    If it doesn't happen in Hawaii, let your family know they'll be expected to help you move when you get back home.
    Couldnt of said it better myself, damn you crack me the hell up Giga!

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    Your morals don't line up. He wants kids with a woman he loves you want them with your husband. Neither is wrong but the fact they don't match is a recipe for disater.

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    why force someone to ask probably the most important question of their life? can you only be happy when you're married rather than being content with being with someone who loves you? he's got the right idea for waiting, if you're gona act like a kid who's had their ice cream stolen. you've also given him empty pointless threats that make you sound like a 15 year old. ever thought that he doesn't think you need rings to show people you love each other? it sounds like you talk up to the point where you don't like what he's saying and don't bother after that, it's selfish.

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