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    Am I right??

    There was a guy(rohit), he made a friend, who was a girl(dolly). And suddenly the rumours between him n the girl started pouring in. He clarified it in front of everyone by saying "we r just friends", but who believes that?

    Dolly had a bf. Rohit conveyed that to all the people..but the rumours kept on increasing. He knew it was his fault as people needed a reason to say all that. He had one more friend(rosa), who used to live in UK, n who had strong liking for him, he knew that , so he polietly told her that he loved someone else. He used to love some other girl(mehak), but because of those rumours. He wasnt even able to tell her about his love for her..

    Tired of those rumours he decided to quit his friendship with that dolly. Few days later his friend(ankit) came up to him n grabbed him by his collars. On asking what happened, his friend asked him one single thing, "bhabhi ko kyun rulaya bae??"(y is dolly crying). N he saw dolly there crying n telling ankit not to say anything to rohit. Instead if telling him the truth. Rohit was stunned..dolly knew about rohit's love for mehak but she still didn’t say anything.

    After his semester examinations he joined a company in order to get a leave from the college, so that he could run away from all that.

    Months later, he found out that dolly was causing those rumours. Dolly, his best friend, was behind those rumours. He didn't have the courage to blame that on his karma. All he did was friendship, he had never expected that.

    Rosa was a common friend of rohit n dolly. She called rohit one day n told her that it was his fault n now dolly is committing suicide because of him. She came out with her psychological theories telling rohit that it was his fault. Now he wasn't brave enough for this double blow. He didn't blame it on himself n he cried a lot, like a child, not because his career was almost gone, he had no more friends, his friends were making fun of him. And he had lost the love of his life coz of the fear that what she would have said after listening to all that.

    Rosa went ahead n called him a cheater. N that he should go back to dolly n say sorry and accept her love for him, the only way to save dolly.

    He had lost it by then. All he had in his mind was anger n more anger. He did the worst mistake of his life. He made a plan to caught both of them red handed - dolly and rosa. He called rosa, n told her that he loved her..said a lot of things to make her believe him.

    Dolly and rosa, both, were together. He was right but his way to prove that wasn’t. He kept on telling her how much he loved her on phone. N kept on asking about dolly. And in few weeks he came to know that dolly had some serious feelings for someone else n was in a relationship, with her bf. He read dolly’s mails given to him by rosa. Gave him their chats to read.

    On knowing the truth, he told rosa the truth of him playing with her. And she was in a state of shock. She (rightly) blamed him for playing with her feelings. He was sorry for falsely saying her all that, but also fired both of them with his words on how they played with his life.

    One day. He found mehak on fb. He told her about his feelings for her. N in few days, they both had connected. Mehak asked him about his relationship with dolly. N he told everything to her(except the rosa part). He just said one thing regarding rosa, “I had something to her, which was very bad and I m ashamed of that, even though she had uined my life”. He promised to tell her all at the right time. But Mehak wanted to confirm everything from dolly.

    Dolly knew rohit would tell mehak about his feelings for her. She was in touch with Mehak. She was waiting for this moment n said what she had to say. She went ahead to tell her about rosa n rohit. and x,y,z.. with rohit making him a playboy.

    So he can understand if mehak doesn't trust him. But still everyday by killing himself, he is trying to prove her that how much he loves her. And he has no one else to blame but himself, as

    1. he should have told mehak about rosa, even though mehak was waiting for rohit to say something to make it easy for her to leave him.
    2. should never have took the step to uncover the truth, like he did.
    3. should never had made dolly her friend.

    But it was so easy to presume the consequences of all that, right?

    But he will never leave his hope. Because he had loved her truly n today if he leaves all that by citing his ego as an issue, he would be blaming himself after few years for letting his love go. He will not let anyone call his love fake or false. He will fight to prove his love right. Come what may. And still if mehak refuses to accept him, he would accept it.

    Now is he right or not??

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    this just sounds like a very long, 3rd personified riddle.
    They called us a dead generation,
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    no..this isnt a riddle..this is life..if u haven't read it yet, i would advice u to read it..

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    That story confused me, but I feel like I now have a better understanding of the cultural context for sati.
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    I CAN'T read that well I can but it's impossible to be able to tell the difference between the like 5 chicks you write about. How about say use first person since clearly it's about you.

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    LMAO@ this thread

    This mind****ed me more than a "Shutter Island."
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    Why do people write such long posts? My ADD can't keep up :/
    I'm not good at beating around the bush or sugar-coating things. My responses are never personal vendetta's on your emotional state. It is what it is, whether you choose to accept it or not. <3

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    It sounds like everyone in this saga acted like children and created drama over nothing.

    Just out of curiousity, is it common in your part of the world to try to kill yourself to prove how much you love someone?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    It sounds like everyone in this saga acted like children and created drama over nothing.

    Just out of curiousity, is it common in your part of the world to try to kill yourself to prove how much you love someone?
    i read it somewhere, because of the similar name. I dont know who has written it, ofcourse an indian. I posted it with a title "is rohit right?" no body replied, even cared to view it. So i had to change the title to "am i right"

    n it wasnt that complex for me to understand that, let me break it for u, as per my understanding..

    when a boy n a girl becomes friend, then rumours between their relationship are unavoidable( happens everywhere round the world)

    but they stop after a certain point of time, which in this case didn't happen..later he came to know that the girl dolly n her other friend rosa(who had a crush on rohit) plotted the rumours out of the jealously with mehak (well, happens everywhere)

    he played a love game with rosa to find out the fact..n succeeds..but his method was wrong ofcourse..

    but all he wanted to know i guess, is about his love for mehak..is it fake just because he chose that way to find out the truth, without even touching rosa??

    i posted this here, coz i had seen a lot of single dimensional questions, does she love me types..this is real life..where no one is totally right..

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    i think all these people should leave each other alone and find other friends which don't try to trap, blackmail and guilt-trip each other.
    They called us a dead generation,
    They told us that we wouldn't survive
    They left us alone in the maelstrom
    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitkitkitty View Post
    i think all these people should leave each other alone and find other friends which don't try to trap, blackmail and guilt-trip each other.
    now thats the best answer..lol..nice one kitty..

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    why do insist of speaking in 3rd person?

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    why do insist of speaking in 3rd person?
    and whats the point of this thread? It doesnt even seem like you're seeking advice at all.

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    This thread made me want to get a drink. I could help you after a few drinks... Anyone thirsty?
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    Quote Originally Posted by IncognitoSir View Post
    and whats the point of this thread? It doesnt even seem like you're seeking advice at all.
    man..this is not my story..i have just copied n pasted it..but this is a real story posted by someone on his facebook account..

    n i am not seeking advice coz i am not having that problem. n the point of this thread is sometimes we all are guilty, like kitty said. The only difference is the extent to which we go down. I just wanted to know who according to u guys went real low in this long boring story?

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