what do i do, i want female and male prespectives...

[DJ--love]

it was a long story.

there was a party several days before valentine's day. i went there a little bit early, so people asked me to help decorate the party, so i helped them. And a very charming lady worked with me puting on the flower docerations. we had fun, and talked a lots of things. i can tell she was totally into me. (To be honest, i think i was the only one that was good for her that night..)

But when the party began, she just sat at the corner, so i accompanied her there, and asked her if she wanted my company later on. She was all of a sudden not interested in me at all. I didn't get it...and then she went to dance with her female friend. left me alone...

So i found another girl. This girl was nice too. And we talked a lots too. But another guy came along, he was just sitting bweteen us and talking to her all the time. And then the guy exscoted the girl home without my notice..But i have her MSN worte down before she left. So i went home too..

I just wanted to get home asap, so i can talk to the second girl...There she was, online on her MSN. so i asked her when she left, and did she like the other guy or what? why ignored me.. bla bla..
she told me that she was tied, so she left early, and the other guy was talking to her the whole time even though she didn't enjoy the conversation. And we had a long nice conversation that night..

But when i asked her our at the valentine's day, She hesitated, she told me that she already made plans with some of ther female friends..etc.. I don't get it why would anyone want to spend their valentines' day like this...

So the next day, we exchanged text message, but when i asked if i could have her company during valentine's day, she didn't reply....


I don't understand what i did wrong. Or just i really didn't understand women at all...

Like the first chraming lady, i thought we hited it off at the very beginning.. But she ended up dancing with her friends...

Any advice, on the second lady, i really don't want to mess things up again.

[DJ--love]

i haven't text messaged or called her since she didn't reply, becuase i thought i should not be sounding too needy at first. I don't know if i was thinking right, or should i call her to tell her exact what i was thinking, what i really wanted to do, to be with her at valentine's day.??