I feel really confused. I've been with my bf for a while now, things had been fantastic and then we had a slight blip a few weeks ago, I was going to end the relationship but in the end, i didnt. Things have been back to being great again now, he's typically everything I look for in a guy- he's kind, caring, protective, selfess, loving..the list goes on, I cant actually think of much i dont like about him!
Basically a few things went on at the weekend that i wont go in to now, but I tried to finish him yesterday..i thought he would just take it but he didnt, he was really upset and he is very much a mans man so i didnt expect this.
He kept asking why..why had i always kept myself at arms length from him, why was i breaking up with him and said that he was expecting this a few weeks ago. I couldnt give him an answer.
A lot of tears flowed from both of us (again i didnt expect this from myself or him) he said he would give me some space to clear my head and begged me to take it and just think about things. I agreed.
Now i've been telling myself for a while that this is just a bit of fun and its going nowhere etc etc...so why do i feel so crap? I feel like i'm just being rather than living today, I have this intense want to call him/talk to him/see him. I cant concentrate on anything, i hardly slept last night and have hardly eaten anything today, it feels like this big raw gaping hole...not exactly how I would expect to feel about someone i saw as a 'bit of fun' .
I dont know what to do