I have a woman friend who's values correspond so closely to mine it's not true. BUT physically she just does not do it for me which is a real shame - her hair is a mess, her clothes are a mess, she basically doesn't do herself justice. And I do think that she wants me more than as a friend. What to do?
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18-08-10, 04:47 AM #1
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How do I tell her?
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18-08-10, 04:50 AM #2
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Besides the fact that she's a mess, does she have potential or is she just gross to the bone?
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18-08-10, 05:38 AM #3
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She's not gross. Physically she's OK but her tits are enormous which is not something that she has any control over. But if she changed her hair, makeup and clothes she would be far more attractive
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18-08-10, 07:57 AM #4
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Well she either does it for you or she doesn't. If she does then go for it and maybe in the future she will become a little bit tidier. Don't tell her right off the bet how ugly you think her hair or clothes are, just make suggestions of "I reckon it would look so good on you if..." type.
Last edited by Mish; 18-08-10 at 07:59 AM.
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18-08-10, 11:10 PM #5
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Poor thing. Probably makes her feel sloppy no matter what she does.
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Bad grooming, though, is a dealbreaker for me. It's like she's a sick animal that doesn't take care of itself. There's an instinctual reason why healthy animals avoid sick animals.Spammer Spanker
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18-08-10, 11:27 PM #6
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she may prefer being a mess to dressing better and having all eyes on her chest. baggy clothes and all that so she blends in.
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