Not sexually attracted anymore

[Bon24]

I'm a pickle. I met my bf on plenty of fish a year agoand we hit it off straight away. We were so in love and he was such a romantic. We got engaged after five months ( he proposed) and everythingwas great. He moved into my parents house but then we moved to his parents house on the northside. We were there for seven months. It was good at the begginning but then necks we both didn't have jobs we were always in each others faces and it was hard. He was around his mates and all he wanted to do was hang with them. I was fine for a while but then it was like they were more important. We started fghting a lot but wld always make up and he wld always say I'm sorry I wanna treat u like a princess cos u deserve it. Eventually we both got jobs and it was good but he started hanging with all the time he was always at his mates house and if I didn't go then I didn't get to spend time with him. In the end everything went down hill and we lost our spark and we were always fighting and couldn't be around each other. Then out of the blue he said he doesntno if he wants this anymore and of course I was so hurt. I didn't want to except it so kept blocking it out. Then things were ok for a bit but then got worse again and we decided to go on a break. I moved to Brisbane and so did he. It's now been three weeks and I thought things were good we were talking and he was saying how much he loved and missed me but there was something still missing. There was no affection and we have only seen each other 2 times in3 weeks. It's reeli hurting me and I always ask him wat is the go and he ses I dontno babe. He ses he loves me with all his heart but he doesn't findme sexually attractive anymore and that it's not me its hiim. Eventhough it hurts I said I want to wait for you until u decide but I just feel like am I waiting for nothing. Then the other day we were talking and he sed he doesn't like seeing me like this... After a little while I said have u found me any more sexualy attractive andhe sed he doesn't see me like that. I broke up with him and it was really hard and I think it hurt him cos he started acting like an ass. I really love him and don't wanna break up and I've told him and he said it's the best for now. I no people might think I'm stupid but I don't wana give up on us. In the end we both have to want this but I don't want to make a mistake and regret not being with him and I'm confused.

[girl68]

You never passed the honeymoon phase so there was not a chance in hell it was going to be bliss once that phase faded. Here's where the real relationship starts.

How old are you 2?

[Bon24]

I'm 21 and he's 20. I no we r young but we thought we were making the right decision.

[kitkitkitty]

what was missing was that you 2 didn't know each other well enough, at ALL. 5 months? you keep finding things out about a partner for months and months after that. and as girl said he proposed in the honeymoon period, you were still a month off going into the more nitty gritty stage. and then you go on a break... c'mon can you really see this lasting for the rest of your life? take it as a lesson to not jump into things so quickly next time.