Girl at work...

[kyle.]

So there is this girl at work that I really like. She is pretty shy but I can just tell she likes me. When she is around me she gets really shy and it seems hard for her to look at me. Problem is I HAVE NEVER SAID A WORD TO HER! And I can't for some reason! I just get self conscious and worry about what she will think and what will happen after if I look like a tool.

I get really shy around girls so it's not as easy as me going up and starting a conversation. It doesn't help that she is incredibly shy to. It's like neither of us will start the conversation.

What can I do!!

[shammi]

poke her eye with your finger and lets see what she says

[kitkitkitty]

poke her eye with your finger and lets see what she says

don't be stupid.

you've gotta bite the bullet and go for it, boy. if you're in a group and they're talking and both you and this girl are just listening in turn to her and ask her.... like how her day went, comment on the weather. anything. then you won't feel like all attention is on you cos of other people talking around you. if you get the chance to open a door for her say 'after you!' and smile. just the little things to break the ice.

[VincenzoG91]

Is this a serious career-type job? If so, don't be so lazy in your dating habits that it gets you in trouble at work. Hit the clubs to meet single women.

However, if this job is no big deal, and you can easily find another one, then have fun.