I have been in this new relationship for 2 months now. I really care deeply for this girl, and I know she does for me as well. It is a long distance relationship for the moment. She lives 4 hours away by car. We are from the same home town. It's a long story as to how the relationship started, but I don't really think that matters. (It is a sweet story though).
So anyway... we of course talk on the phone a lot, and text most of the time. Some emails and even some Facebook chats. But in general, we only see each other for like 3-4 days at a time every two weeks. So, I knew when I got into this relationship that it would have it's drawbacks. She is an absolutely beautiful woman. I mean, she's a total 10! by anyone's standards. And she's done well for herself, so she has money. So basically, she gets hit on everyday, pretty much all day; by clients, strangers, co-workers, limo drivers, even her best friends karate instructor.
And all that's great. But she tells me about all of them. "So and So has a crush on me.", "We went to a party last night in a limo and the driver hit on me all night and ended up trying to give me his phone number.", "My boss sure has been giving me a lot of extra attention at work a lot lately since his wife left him."
And I don't think she does it out of some kind of weird "game" she's playing to make me jealous. I just honestly think that she feels so comfortable talking to me that she feels like she can talk to me about anything and everything. So, I'm not like, angry with her. To be 100% perfectly honest, it is just threatening.
Here's the deal. She drives a $110,000 Mercedes and lives in a Condo on the water front. I drive a 1996 Honda Accord with a dent in the back and live in a 2 room economy apartment. She earns six figures. Even though I am a college professor, I only earn in the low $30,000 range. I'm not a bad looking guy, and I am a hell of a lot of fun, and I know that she absolutely adores me... but I'm overweight, which no matter what just makes me kinda self-conscious.
So anyway... almost everything is great about this relationship. We really have such a connection, and we just laugh and laugh with each other. On a sexual level it was like we were made to be together. It is perfect. So, I really don't want to start rocking things by getting all paranoid and asking her to stop saying things etc. But at the same time, I can't help but wonder why in the hell she would even WANT to tell me all that. I get interest from ladies here in my town. Hell, the receptionist in my office has a mad crush on me. There are several students that would risk the semester to get with me. (Would NEVER go there... for the record.) But I just instinctively am aware that she would probably NOT want to hear about all that.
Why do you guys think she tells me these things? And should I just shut up about it, and just be thankful for what all is going right?