i met this girl. its been about 3 weeks to a month now and we've become good friends. When im around her i just have a weird feeling. i feel like i can tell her anything. we have a lot in common, all my friends say that they thikn she likes me but i dont know what to do. the problem is ill have a hard time somties talking to her i just get shy and i end up standing there for a while feeling stupid. we talk online a lot and i have no problem talking online its just hard for me in person. she says shes really shy too but i still feel stupid abuot it. what im asking is is there a way i can convince myself to feel completely open to her.
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11-09-10, 11:43 AM #1
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you need to think of it this way if it helps... you feel comfortable enough to tell her anything which is nice but you now need to change these 'awkward silences' into 'we don't need to constantly talk to feel comfortable with each other'. remember it'll only be awkward if you think it is. if you're standing there, suggest to go for a walk so that you're moving but you don't necessarily have to fill the silence.
They called us a dead generation,
They told us that we wouldn't survive
They left us alone in the maelstrom
As you can see we're all clearly alive.
