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    Does this really work?

    So my co workers and I got to talking about my ex, of 2 months now, because he came into my work to ask me something. Told them how we are broken up and we were engaged and blah blah blah and how I want us to get back together and really work on our relationship but he just wants to be single and go to work and hang with his friends and not look for anybody else to be with for a while. But anyways my co workers all told me that in order to get him back you pretty much gotta ignore him completely like he just dont matter to you anymore. Even when you gotta see him.

    Just wondering...does this actually work??? One of my co workers said it worked for her and her, as of last week, husband.

    Give me your thoughs! =)

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    lol ooops I meant THOUGHTS

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    There is no magic bullet when it comes to these things and people who proclaim to have a secret to success most of the time are just blowing hot air. Your best chance if you want your ex back is to meet up and have a conversation with him, see if he is interested in another go or not. Any "tricks" and "magic bullets" will likely leave you disappointed with the outcome.
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
    ~Born to Live - Mavrik~

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    Mish is right. Investing a lot of time into trying to win someone back (especially when he specifically broke up with you because he doesn't want a relationship right now) is more likely to disappoint, or even worse, backfire completely. Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?

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