Me and my ex have been together sense we were young. I am 25 she is 24 and we have been together for 9 years. We broke up and she started dating someone else a month later. We dident talk for a few weeks now shes calling me and saying she wants to be friends and hang out sometimes. I told her I could not do it , it would never work us just being friends. Is she trying to come back or does she really just want to be my friend? After 9 years of being with someone I cant see how someone could just date someone else that fast and then want to be my friend. I want her back so bad, its awful. What should I do should I called her? I told her when we got off the phone that I loved her and hoped she has a great life. Think maybe I ended the conversation the wrong way. We would just get laughing and forget we were broke up and then I would snap out of it and realize she has a BF. I asked her if she was more happy with him then me and she said no. I then said said then why arent we together and she said something like we werent happy or something like that. We both agreed we wanted each other to be happy but she is what makes me happy. It kills me now I think about it, I just dont know if she wants me back or what is going threw her head.