Ill cut right to it.

We where dating for little more than a year. I believed we where in love, at least she was the first to say she loves me (not sure if it makes a difference) and I love her back (yes I believe I'm still in love with her).

She went overseas at the end of August last year for a year. We split up cause she didn't want to do the long distance thing, which I eventually realized makes sense. She had a new boyfriend less than 3 months after we split (don't know if thats fair ?). Thanks to Facebook its possible to throw it into every ones faces. I never had a "real" girlfriend during this time.

The idea was to stay friends and keep in contact. Naturally we talked a lot during the initial stages and it got less and less over the months to the stage where its a quick hello on gtalk maybe once a month and thats it. During this time she also forgot my birthday (not sure if it means anything, she did call the next week thou ???)

Now she is about to come back towards the end of this month. I don't know what to do. I'm unfortunately still very in love with her (maybe I just miss her and its not love, don't know). I also don't know If she is still with her boyfriend. No use assuming they split up because of the long distance thing cause people change (we haven't been friends on Facebook for a while now, so I don't know).

So what do I do? I still love her, but I also don't just want to be the guy she runs back to (thats if she even wants to) after a nice stay overseas and jump into a new relationship just cause she got used to a guy being around her all the time, and then splitting AGAIN.

She said she wants to get coffee, but that doesn't mean Jack, and to be honest I don't know if I should go and see her. I was very heart broken when she left and honestly still really struggling with it every now and then.

So what now?