Ok, cut a story short, look at me other threads and skim read the basics.

So me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly two weeks, after we split up for 3 weeks, from a relationship that was nearly three years. I got a bit carried away on the sex side, i was stupid, there was a bit of a trust issue, neither cheated, she thought i might of been bored of her, no way.

So following advice from my previous threads, i do NC. This only lasts a couple of days, it was really hard for me, but i went out with friends, did stuff, got away from it.

So after a couple of days, she texts me, asking for me to meet her, to go cinema or a meal. I leave it for a bit, and reply, "yea" short and blunt, but at home i couldnt stop being excited, i was over the moon. When i arrive to pick her up, later that evening, she askes me out at her door, and says that she wants to take it slow.

This results in a make up sex, over a couple of days. Now that her mum and dad are back from holiday, it has totally stopped again, even when they are out at work.

I'm confused, because, I do not get moody if we don't do it, i don't get moodyat all. Just that all my advances are turned down, all of them. She's going to move away to university on saturday, and i thought she'd want to make the most of it, while we can still see each other? I know that once she goes to uni, i will only be able to see her, once/twice a week.

She's also said that she doesnt want to see me as much, because of uni, which i understand, we both agreed that we didn't want to get bored of each other, because when we met after we both had a seperate holiday last year...it was AMAZING, the attraction everything, passion.

But also, she isn't really passionate, she'll kiss me, half the time with passion, others a quicky, as before there was always passion most the time, i wouldnt have to ask for a kiss. Is this to do with "time", as i have given her so many complimants, and i have recieved none, none at all. When before she'd always say something like "gorgeous" and so on....She said she couldn't live without me, because i said i couldn't just be friends after the split up, as i have too many feelings for her. When i stopped talking to her, i think she realised how much i ment to her.

So, is she still healing? We have been to a couple of meals and movies, but should i back off a bit? Sometimes i know im a bit clingy, it annoys me myself, i do not want to smother her. I feel like i have done all the chasing...i don't know anymore.