I am in lot of dissapointment, plz help me.

[Akki15623]

Hi,

I and my girlfriend were very happy and love each other a lot and we are getting married in the month of May.

Right from August she is not talking with me, I mean when I call her, she says I don't want to talk, please don't call me. When I feel to talk I will talk, or we can talk on right after marriage again.

what the hell does this mean?

Why she doesn't want to talk anymore? When I ask her she says I don't no.

she is not even telling me the problem.

she loves me still, but don't no, I think somethng is disturbing her.

She went to her native place for 15 days in August and when she was back she is not talking to me since then.

I called her today and asked the same question and she says the same thing. I don't no, I don't no why I don't want to talk to you?

I am in a lot of tensions. I can't see her like that, I want to see her again happy?

In angry I told her that I will also not talk to you till marriage.

Guys please help me in this, should I call her?

I am thinking to send her presents or gifts every saturday, the things she love most, like chocolate and all.

will that be good?

Guys do you think, I am her problem?

If I go out of her life, will she be happy?

I am ready to die for her. I really love her a lot and I don't want to be a problem for her, I want to see her happy again.

[justcheckin]

Well do you think she is going to show up for the marriage? I would honestly think about calling it off. It really seems to me like she is either having second thoughts about you or the marriage. What are the events that lead up to this behavior? Did something happen before she moved away and started to not want to talk? I dont think we have the full story here.

[Akki15623]

Yes she do wanna marriage with me only. Once I told her that I don't like your behaviour and I don't think you me anymore, I don't want to marry you. Then she told that I will not marry anyone except you, nor I am in love with anyone else. I love you but you don't understand me. Nothing happened she moved away everything was very good, when she is back it started all.

When I ask her why do don't want to talk, she says. I don't no why.

[Akki15623]

Can you explain me about the second thoughts about me or marriage as you told me in above reply.