I'm a 21 year-old in college and never had a girlfriend. But MULTIPLE people have told me I'm hot, handsome, cute, adorable, etc. I've even have some guys tell me "you're a good-looking guy"... One time I had a random girl that didn't know me at all tell me I was hot.
The problem, girls never even look at me at college. I could be walking past a group of girls coming in the opposite direction and I look at them but they act like I don't exist. On top of that, girls never approach me. I sit alone in the cafeteria sometimes and occasionally look up and everyone acts like I don't exist. No eye contact, nothing. If I were as attractive as I have been told, it seems girls would at least look at me
I'm a little short, 5'8 and 135 pounds. I've also been called baby-faced and young-looking so I think the combination of the above might be my problem. Is it possible I'm really attractive to a small percentage of girls and the rest don't even notice me? Or do they notice me and I just don't notice them noticing me? Or could I be so attractive that girls think I'm gay? (I've had a couple gay guys like me).