Confusion

[Kaaattte]

I have found myself in a situation that has left me confused and hurt..
after being in a relationship for 17 months I thought I knew my other half pretty well..

We share most things including passwords etc and often find myself using his email account instead of mine.. today I used his account to register to amazon as I lost my password and can no longer access it. I found he has a lost password message for a google email account and i was curious as i didn't realise he has an account he kept from me.

so i snooped..
Turns out on google mail you can see web history.. Was a nice surprise to find on his google searches 'free porn' and other similar things.. Just so happens I was meant to be seeing him later today (we live about 20 minutes away) so find it hurtful he used porn before he saw me.. especially after always denying that he used it saying everyone once in a while when we don't see each other as often. I went to see him but couldn't bring myself to say i knew .. and admit i'd snooped.

Just don't know what to think really...

[VincenzoG91]

Porn is almost but not quite as essential to an adult male as food or water. Don't be a control freak.

[justcheckin]

you need to get over it haha. first of all EVERY guy looks at porn, it is not that big of a deal. Second, I would feel wierd if you brought up that you snooped through my history and found out something like that... that's outrageous. You need to stop looking for reason to not trust somebody, it is unhealthy.

[Davis]

I don't think couples should be swapping email passwords or facebook passwords.....things always go wrong it seems.

Anyway, every single guy watches porn....a guy totally in love with a girl who also watches porn doesn't have a change in the way he feels about her.....unless hes watching it like 6 hours a day lol..

[VincenzoG91]

Unless you are having sex with him almost every day, there are going to be days where he is thinking about sex but can't get laid. Would you rather that he hook up with other women, or just look at harmless pictures of women that he will never meet?

[struggling]

I don't think couples should be swapping email passwords or facebook passwords.....things always go wrong it seems.

devoted and committed couples hide nothing. to have a complete honest relationship you share everything. what do you have to hide anyway is the obvious question if you do not

[WICKED THOUGHTS]

haha porn is porn. We guys watch it just bcuz were bored. lol Its not like we watched it 24/7! Trust me.. no more then 15 mins top and thn we look at cars and guns and then mma

[VincenzoG91]

haha porn is porn. We guys watch it just bcuz were bored. lol Its not like we watched it 24/7! Trust me.. no more then 15 mins top and thn we look at cars and guns and then mma

Your wicked thoughts are more about cars than porn?

[WICKED THOUGHTS]

Your wicked thoughts are more about cars than porn?

Well... motorbikes too. lmao