Ok, so most here know that I am unhappily married for a number of reasons. Anyway I was listening to Sade last week (one of my favorite singers ever). If you've heard her music before it is melancholy, but with a hope and a longing for love. I feel like so many of the songs she sings. I also wish that I could experience someone who could show me how deep love can be (from 'Cherish The Day'). I got SOOO depressed last week when thinking about my marriage and my life. I couldn't get a hold of my friend, so I just chugged a bottle of Unearthly and after my total hammeredness set in I went to bed. Midweek drunkenness isn't good.
At the beginning of this week I saw this asian woman walking near the apartment. I usually see her a few miles up on the main road, but never near where I live. I don't know what it is about her that caught my attention, but all I could do was slow down and take in the sight that was before me. I saw her yesterday and she was wearing some pink shorts and a pink top. Both a little thin. I couldn't really get a good look at her because my wife was in the car. I did manage to find an excuse to go back to the store twice just so I could see her again. I felt like 007, lol.
I started to realize how stupid it all was though. I have no idea who she is, or what type of person she is. That doesn't change the fact that it feels like she grabbed my heart though. ??? I got really depressed again today, mainly because I saw her again. F*ck!
It doesn't help that my wife rented 'Why did I get married too' last night. It was a really good move, but I felt myself wanting Angie (yeah, the crazy one). Why? Because she genuinely WANTED her man even though she didn't trust him (not to mention that she is fine as shit). She acted crazy because she didn't want him to leave. I really do envy him. All his dumb ass had to do was reassure her by being overly open with her to prove that he wasn't the cheater that he once was. I mean damn, she argued with him just to have makeup sex later too (although the arguments were about her trust issues). Give her the f*cking phone password and have her go wherever you are until she tires of you proving that you aren't a cheater. Simple, easy, and something that I would personally find very gratifying (proving myself to a woman who loves me and wants me).
Alas, that is only a movie, she is only a character, the asian woman is only a stranger, and I'm still in the same f*cking position I will always be in until someone dies. F*CKKKKK!!!!!!!
I have actually entertained thoughts of taking all of my money and just going to another country to start over. My big brain tells me that I can't outrun my problems though, so here I sit.