oral sex?

[starface14]

okay, needing help.
i'm one of those people that always over-thinks things, so please bear with me. (:

i've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now, and we both really like each other. he's a really great guy and liked me for pretty much a year before we started going out.
we're getting pretty serious now, and we've talked about sex, but i don't think i'm quite there yet? i want to experiment with oral sex first. i've told him this.
i know i want to try some stuff like blowjobs, or a handjob, and i'm pretty intent on giving, not receiving.

i think i've got the gist of how to do the stuff, but if you've got any tips you think would be really helpful, i'd be grateful.

but what i really want to know is how i would go about pleasuring him? when will i know its the right time, and how would i get into it without it being awkward?

thank you. (: x

[Gribble]

Any time is a good time for a blowjob.

[Boisdevie]

It all sounds a bit too thought out - almost like - well for the next two weeks I'll give you handjobs, then for a further two weeks blowjobs and then after this, if it works, we'll have sex. Just go with the flow and don't over analyse it all.

[vashti]

Why would you be intent on giving and not receiving? That's crazy. Why should you expect no pleasure? How old are you?

[Boisdevie]

And you've been going out for 5 months and not had sex? Why not?

[ammi00]

^^ I think it's because they're both young, probably inexperienced and from what the OP said, she's virgin. Nothing wrong with that. Anyway... why aren't you interested into receiving oral?
I don't think it's the right case to overthink the situation, just go with the flow and see what he likes. Ask him what he enjoys, and what not (every guy is different); maybe you could tell him from the beginning that you'd like a bit of guidance.
And yeah... any time is a great time for a blow job Do it when you feel most comfortable...

[Agape]

How old are you? How old is him? Is he your first? Are you his first?

Anyways, don't overthink it and just take it at a pace which feels natural . . .the natural progression of nudity, handjobs, blowjobs, etc. is probably a good way to go

[all alone]

Hey now... let's not ruin it for this guy she is seeing, he could have a pretty good thing coming here and you're all going to ruin it for him. I mean easy head and he doesn't affect to work for it.. now thats the life..

[sparkle_jello]

Why would you be intent on giving and not receiving? That's crazy. Why should you expect no pleasure? How old are you?

Judging by her login I would say she's 14. At 14 I may have been a little squeamish too.

[vashti]

Judging by her login I would say she's 14. At 14 I may have been a little squeamish too.

If she's only 14, she should stay away form his penis with her mouth. Hasn't anyone told her that boys pee and don't wipe?

[Spoonandfork]

If she's only 14, she should stay away form his penis with her mouth. Hasn't anyone told her that boys pee and don't wipe?

she needs to start practicing her skills now if she ever hopes to land a man

[Gribble]

If you think men are any different in that regard you're kidding yourself. Hell, do you know how much food you've eaten that's been prepared by a dude who just took a piss and didn't wash? Would you like urine with your Big Mac?

[vashti]

If you think men are any different in that regard you're kidding yourself. Hell, do you know how much food you've eaten that's been prepared by a dude who just took a piss and didn't wash? Would you like urine with your Big Mac?

I am so paranoid about that! I don't eat out much. lol

I know men are the same, but at least an older woman has the guts to tell him to bathe!

[Only-virgins]

What's with the oral threads lately? I haven't been able to go down on a girl in a while now and I really crave it ooh the pain and torture. These threads don't help.

[starface14]

yeah, he is my first, i'm 15 in a couple of months.
i've never done anything like this before, and i'm pretty nervous.