Really need advice now...

[ConfusedGuy87]

Hi, we have been going out really 6 months as we have admitted we havent got with other people since then and officially 2 months, now for the 1st time we said to each other that we actually love each other.

My ex at the minute has had only 1 BF before but ended it cause she wasnt interested in relationships, and since then, about 4 years she is just meh about them. She said i changed everything and was willing to give us a chance. Now its happened again and she doesnt know what to do.

We broke up wednesday and met up last night, we wanted to kiss, hold hands etc but we...couldnt, it would be too hard. She said she needs time to see if she can figure it out, and i guess i have a timer too as to when i should just...leave it. I cant imagine ending it as this is the 1st girl i have ever truly loved before and im sure she feels the same.

She said she would like me to move on as she isnt sure if she can find the answer to whats going on, but then crys when she thinks about me with anyone else...then, says she wants me to wait. I am going to wait...i love her. She loves me.

True love wins over at the end...right?

[YouAreBeautiful]

I would guess that she is interested in someone else, or at least exploring other options. She wants you to move on so that she can. She does still have feeilngs for you from the sound of it. A more casual relationship between you might be better for her. If you would like to be her boyfriend and seriously committed I would suggest backing off completely for 1 or 2 weeks. Call her at the end of this time, give her the option of being with you again. It is important that you back off and not call, text, or see how she is doing. You can give a short reply if she initiates the call or text. She needs to not have you as an option. If she can break up with you and always run to you and be accepted, she may not take you seriously. Good luck confusedguy, hope you find the solution.

[Agape]

Don't quite understand the original post.

You can wait a bit and hope that she gets over you OR you can move on and don't let her hold you back. . . .as this is your first girl, it's going to be the hardest to leave her - but if the relationship doesn't seem to be going well then it's the best option.