I will make this short and sweet, or do my best not to confuse anyone.
Here is my story:
The school year started about a month ago. I am in a computing program, Engineering to be exact, and there is but one attractive lady in my class. We started hitting it off really well. She would laugh at nearly everything I said, shoot occasional looks my way (by the way, we almost always sit close, if not next to each other), she would let me listen to the music on her iPod (without me asking for it first), and just flirt...that is until recently.
My buddy suggested that the two of us would look cute together, so I started thinking about it, but my problem is that I took my sweet *** time to muster up the courage to finally ask her out. I did it last monday, asked her out to lunch, but a couple of other guys in my class decided to stick around with us and didn't let us have any time to ourselves. Now, I should have just lead the way and took her off school property for lunch as I had intended to, but I didn't want to be rude, so I just stayed with everyone. Ever since then things kind of changed...I'm starting to think she lost respect for me because I did not escalate, or attempt to swoop her out of there.
Well, anyway...just 2 days ago, I decided to ask her out again, but this time for a movie. I was shooting for Thursday night, but she said she has to work, and then I asked her if she would be available next weekend. She said maybe, and that she is pretty busy, at which I teased her, saying "come on, you can't be busy 24/7" and she laughed and said "you're right, I am not". She said she will know by the end of this weekend if she will be available sometime next week, to which I told her that I will call her on Sunday, or Monday to confirm.
Now, my question is:
What does this "maybe" of her's really mean?
To be honest I think I am kind of starting to fall for this girl, but I am fighting very hard to keep my feelings at bay, just in case she denies me. Also, she is coming off a pretty nasty break-up (her ex basically played with her feelings) from a 3 year relationship. I am contemplating on just waiting till our class on Tuesday to talk to her about it, but since I promised I would call, I probably should do it. How should I go about this? I would also like her to know that I am willing to wait for her to come around, and if she needs time and space to adjust that I would be MORE THAN WILLING to oblige with her request.
Also, I just want to get to know her as a person a little better for now. I have commitment issues myself, and I can see that she does too, based on this nasty experience of hers. From what I see there right now, I can safely say that I already like quite a few things about her. Last thing I want is to lose this chance right now, so I need advice.
Thanks, Ladies!