Me and my boyfriend have been together 2+ years. We are both from relationships where we were cheated on in the previous relationship before ours. He tends to get a nervous/jealous when a new guy comes into my life. Co-Workers, Friends, Etc...
Recently I met a guy. Hes nice and attractive. I'm not really interested tho.
Originally when i met him he was going to see if he could adjust my phone bill to be cheaper (he works at ATT) so we started texting about that. I didn't hide this from my boyfriend. My boyfriend was cool about it. But over time we started texting back and forth daily because he keeps offering me a job at his work. I went and applied. I currently work about 2 building away from him and we meet up and talk. Over the course of about a month.. "meeting up for hugs" has kinda become a flirty joke between us even tho I'm not interested..He might be..I am not sure
Recently my boyfriend is noticing something is up. He has been asking me if I still talk to him because he knows I work 2 buildings away from him. I mentioned I might apply at his work. I think that's what caught his attention. He keeps asking me if we ever meet up or text still. I keep lying to him and telling him I'm not even tho I have been for about a month.
Is it wrong for me to hide this from him because he is Jealous and might handle it poorly?
Is it wrong that "meeting up for hugs" has kinda become the thing we talk about and do even tho in my mind I am only really talking to him to try to get this job?
Is it wrong we send each other texts before our breaks like "Hey! wanna meet for a quick hug!?"..or once the guy wrote "I've got a craving for some hugz!! When you taking break?? *smiley* "...That's a brief example of what the texts have become over the past 2 weeks..the hugs joke is starting to become the spotlight of conversation.
Is it wrong the guy offers to come visit me on my break to talk for a few minutes and hug even tho its his day off?
Is it wrong that this guy might be interested in me (im not sure if he is) and even tho im not into him that way to continue talking to him behind my boyfriends back?
What should I do? I really do not feel like dealing with my boyfriend freaking out about this guy when its nothing to me. However I still I still feel bad tho..