love mix-up need advice

[Sleepless]

Couple months ago I meet this beautyfull and extremelly attractive lady and we have been dating alot since we meet. The problem is she didn´t tell me immediately that she has a boyfriend living in another country. So I guess I am the bad guy . However we couldn´t stop meeting each other because we really are in a romantic love and our relationsship is very serious at the moment. We are both studying in a foreign country but her boyfriend lives in another country. Also three of us have different nationality.

She meet here boyfriend again when he came to visit here for couple of days and she told me that she was thinking about me alot but she couldn´t tell him about us. They have been together for one year and I think that is very long time. Her boyfriend is 9 years older than her but I am 1 year older. She is very much in love with me and she can´t break up with him because our realationship hasn´t been very long and she is afraid she is doing something she will regret. I can´t be with her if she is in a relationship with someone else.

The thing is I need to go back to my country in 3 months and continue my studies there and she has to study here for much longer time. I really want to be in relationship with her even though we will be in a different country but it will be very hard and I think that is also why she doesn´t want to break up with her boyfriend.

This is very complicated we have tried not to talk to each other or meet but we do it nonetheless because we are so in love. Now we are trying not to talk to each other and I can´t stop thinking about her.

What should I do ?

[King Zarathu]

you need to seriously get over her. i think that was a very huge tease on her part. what countries are all of you from? STOP thinking about her.. get another girl you can have sex with to take ur mind off of it.

poopie

[Sleepless]

Well seriously I don´t think she is teasing me because we talk about the problem alot and she feels bad about it and cries because she is very confused on what to do. In fact I think she should be writing to this forum but not me. You asked me what countries we are from... well I don´t want to tell you more than we are both from Europe and she is from Latin America. And this relationship is not only sexual :-) so I don´t think I would get over her by finding another girl. This girl is so wonderful person its hard to forget her.

[King Zarathu]

then she needs to leave her boyfriend. you need to TEASE HER! tease her and then just leave sometimes.. tell her if she doesn't leave her boyfriend then she can forget about you. maybe the next time you guys screw, say "well i would if you weren't still with the other guy" things like that. she needs to leave him or leave you.

you make the choice.