Hi, I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 yrs and counting. We've had our ups and downs but maintained an healthy relationship. The trouble started brewing this summer that just passed, when we started college. By the way, this isn't happening because of college and meeting new people because so far, we both didn't meet anyone from the opposite sex. I think one of our main problems is that I'm still clingy and luvy duby (and yes I am a guy) and she is not at all clingy anymore. She gets sick when I say I love you, and I only say it before we go to bed.. and no we're not living together. She is leaving to go to the army in April which hit us hard, because we're both uncertain if it'll workout. We broke up about a week ago, but I wanted to at least try the long distance thing (I don't like "what if's"). We also broke up at the beginning of September about twice, on and off. Anyways other then that, our relationship has always been great, and I love her to death but all our friends say we don't know how to properly break up... Every time we break up, we end up back together, and I miss her so much, but we've both been having issues recently, and I feel weird.. But I don't wanna loose her. Wtf is going on and what should we do...?