I'm so lost...

[rlmw23]

THanks everyone for the advice.

[LovesickDan]

This is my opinion, don't take it as if it's an answer but I'm stating this through my experiences.

When a guy says he'll change or promises something that has been broken over and over again, it's a trap. Sometimes he doesn't do it intentionally, but it happens.

When somebody has to change, usually it's for the better, of course. But don't get that mixed up with when somebody changes themself to the point where they aren't themselves anymore.

This is a bit hard to say but, everybody can give heart-felt conversations like you've had with this guy. Obviously everybody's unique but, everybody has things they want to talk about. Don't take your conversations with him to be special, I'm trying to say. Personal, okay, but special, not... With some exceptions but it's hard to explain.

Basically,

You need to move on.

[Agape]

Judge him by his actions. . . NOT his words . . . things don't look good

Best you cut contact and leave him for good . . . better than being emotionally hurt every time he breaks his promises.

[gregorymoto]

Run and Run fast and far. Unless you like drama. Relationships should not be this hard. It sounds like you both need to do some personal work before you jump into love.

[rlmw23]

You are all right, thank you so much. I think I just needed some confirmation from an outside and impartial perspective. Ive been slowly phasing him out of my life- and he's been calling me on it, but I don't need toxicity or baggage in my life.

Again, thanks.

[jaymichal]

well that's very interesting