Is she right for me?

[lostfoundings]

Im dating a girl who is smart, and attractive, but a little nieve. Still shes sweet. Im having that bad nagging feeling in the back of my head though in regaurds to our relationship. Its not too serious and we just started dating but there are some things ive been worried about. She scares easy,and im a horror fan, i love zombies gore...ect, so we have a few differences in opinion. we do love alot of the same movies and she is definitely willing to "suffer" though the scary ones with me, but i dont like making some one do somthing they dont want to do. She is also very religious, and im not against it, or anything, and ive gone to church with ehr once, but im not sure im cut out to make it a big part of my life just yet. The religious thing bein said, she doesnt want to get physical until she's married, and thats kinda of annoying because i was used to quite the opposite, but for the right girl i would wait.

There arejust so many little things that say both yes and no! im confused, and i really need some outside perspective. how should i handle this? is she worth dating until we gte married? or should this be a passive fling? arg..so much to think about...

[vashti]

I think given enough time, the decision about whether or not to keep her will be easy to make. I don't think the difference in movies genre interests is even worth mentioning, but the religion can be a big issue.

[lostfoundings]

i was just relating the movies thing, to show how we do have soem little differences as all poeple do i suppose, but when i look at them all it makes me concerned. they wouldnt normally, but the girls kinda been tossing arround the "L" word in a rather serious way, and weve only been dating a month. im not scared of commitment, but id'e like to know her better first i suppose. thanks for the advice though, i suppose it is too soon to tell

[Applesauce]

How old are you? Anyway, I can already tell you it won't work out. You are raising too many concerns for only 1 month and dating, and these problems will snowball into bigger problems later

[matrix00]

At the end it all depends upon you, how you wanna take into things. If you really want to take things in right way, im sure you would wait for her. But the way you said, it seems like you really don't want to put in so much efforts....relationship can also be enjoyed without sex....and its just been one month....she is sensitive i think...and so she will wait until she gets into physical with you...let some time pass by...know her more.....im sure it will be worth...may be you really like her then...