How does a girl test a guy to see if hes the one ?

[arian29]

How does a girl test a guy to see if hes the one ? girly secrets .. reveal some pls.. lol

[Boisdevie]

You do not TEST anyone. That's a stupid game. If he is THE ONE then you will know - it's that simple

[arian29]

lol no, they do test.. things like desperation.. trying hard etc..

[Gribble]

You get burned over and over again. You break up with decent but flawed guys. You eventually realize there is no such thing as "the one" and you settle for the next best thing.

[xxazurexx]

You do not TEST anyone. That's a stupid game. If he is THE ONE then you will know - it's that simple

Sometimes it's not a case that we are playing games. If we have been hurt before, we become 'cautious' and wary when a new guy comes along.

I learned a long time ago, not to throw caution to the wind, to just jump in and trust and believe what every single guy I meet will say to me.

I became 'lovesmart'.

Now I look for red flags very early on. I like the guy to show the majority of interest in the early days. To test his level of interest, I do refrain from calling and texting a lot. I'm reciprocating his interest and showing him I like him, each and everytime I pick up on a call and send a text and I never ignore a call or text if I'm genuinely interested.

I just like to be 100 per cent sure of a guys interest and that it's a genuine interest, before I will give totally open up and give my heart.

Just the way I am now and because of past experiences.

Hope this helps.

[xxazurexx]

lol no, they do test.. things like desperation.. trying hard etc..

I don't test for stuff like that. I just like to be sure of a genuine interest, that he aint a loser or a player.

[LailaK]

You shouldn't test anyone, you should just date them. Believe me, if he's an as*hole he'll show his true colors eventually.

[Ariadne]

There are tests?! O______O

Tell me of these tests so that I may use them. Maybe my boyfriend is testing me seeing as how HE WILL NOT **** ME NO MATTER WHAT THE HELL I DO!!! QQRAGEBAWWW!!!!

[Poetic_Partner]

The ultimate test is to spend years together and get to the point of saying "you know, he does make me mad sometimes, but I'm soooo lucky to have him in my life."

-PP

[xxazurexx]

There are tests?! O______O

Tell me of these tests so that I may use them. Maybe my boyfriend is testing me seeing as how HE WILL NOT **** ME NO MATTER WHAT THE HELL I DO!!! QQRAGEBAWWW!!!!

Dunno if that is a test, but men do test. They are testing you and from the moment they meet you.

They test to see if you'd be an easy lay or not, or whether you are a female he is going to have to put time and effort into getting to know, for instance.

Tests are going all the time without your even realising it. A man is taking in everything you say and forms an opinion of you and the kind of female you are.

I read a book on all this shit.

[girl68]

I don't do this but I've heard of the obvious yet very stupid "tests"
-do you think that chick is hot?
-do I look fat in this?
-siiiiiigghhhhhhhhhhhhh... I'm feel so fat today...
-well, do you WANT to go out with the boys?

[Gribble]

-Not nearly as hot as you.
-Absolutely. Pretty Hot And Tempting.
-See above.
-Yes. Leave me alone.

Do I pass?

[LailaK]

Too bad when it comes to "fatness" it doesn't really matter what men say.

[xxazurexx]

I'm unsure why women ask if they fat. That is something I've never asked, 'Am I fat?

If I'm fat, I know I'm fat. I don't need anyone verifying it.

[Poetic_Partner]

"Do I look fat in this" is often used to fish for compliments, rather than as a test.

She's not testing whether you will say A or B, but trying to get you to say A more often.

-PP