Ha, don't really know why I'm posting this
Ok, so I have been deliberately avioding LF for a week or so now. Maybe I'm going against my better jugdement now because I've had my fair share of beer an vodka tonight? Anyway I had the good fortune of meeting one of the most amazing women ever, period. We met online, and our talking became frequent and we even planned to meet. The timing was all wrong though. Mainly because I'm still married and she is still in a relationship (albeit a dead one). 14 days, and it was a wild ride of emotional extacy and powerful hope. Unfortunately my calculating side dominated my romantic side. Right now we are in 'no contact' because I felt that we shouldn't meet until we had our situations straightened out (which she agreed with me on). Reality sucks balls. Big fat hairy ones.
I felt like my soul was being crushed when we started our no contact status. She said that she deleted all of the pictures she had of me and asked if I would do the same. I did, out of respect for her wishes, but it was hard. Her smile is amazing, and her eyes are so beautiful that you could get lost looking into them. She seemed to be closer to being my "other half" than my wife, and I was already planning how I was going to approach life with her by my side. <<<That was definitely my romantic side..... Who knows how much of what we felt was infatuation and projecting rather than love and true chemistry? It felt so right though.
I hope that she is alright, and that she is faring better in her situation. Its funny that sometimes the hottest flames burn the quickest. Although we didn't get to meet I felt that just the emotional aspect of what we had going on was very "hot". No matter what happens I will never forget her, and I wish her to be happier that she ever thought possible.
What is weird is that I was posting how sad I was on Facebook and my exgirlfriend sent me a message asking me to call her. She said that she had been having a really low point lately and that we should talk to each other to cheer each other up. I politely declined while breifly explaining my situation (very breifly). She sent me another message a day or two later saying that she hoped that I would call, but I politely declined again.
I swear, life is one kick in the cojones after another.....
Last edited by Incognito; 28-11-10 at 02:38 PM.
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