This is going to be long, but I sure could use some help.
I have this friend who is a female who I've known since grade school. We are in our 2nd year of college and wound up in the same class. She sits directly in front of me and we speak daily during class. Since we started the class we do things together quite frequently (nearly every weekend). Things from concerts, to our high school football games, etc. Sometime with other friends sometime just us. Anyway, as you can tell from the title I've developed romantic feelings for her since we've been hanging out frequently.
She gives off all sorts of mixed signals:
Talking to me about other guys (usually in the form of "So I'm talking to this guy from...")
She tells me multiple people have asked her if we are dating and she says we're just friends.
She is always flirty.
She has told me a few times that I'm "in her bubble" but doesn't move away or anything.
When at concerts/football games/etc and it is crowded it usually doesn't seem to bother her that we are touching, but sometimes she will tell me to move over.
There was this one girl who I did not get along with because she thought I was a smart-*** and that I knew everything and she told her "well he does own his own business, so he knows a lot more than you"
On one trip we, her sister and her sister's "friend" (another male) went to a concert. It wasn't officially "double dating" but it sure felt like it to me.
Most recently, She, my cousin and I went to a HS football game then a concert over the weekend and we spent two nights in the same hotel room. She in one bed, me in another, and my cousin in the pull-out bed. Anyway, she seemed perfectly normal but tended to back-off from her normal "friendliness" and seemed to flirt with both of us and playfully punch me and name calling. During the trip we went to Wal-Mart and the clerk made a comment about her buying hand warmers and said "He could just snuggle with you and stay warm" (referring to me) and she just laughed and said not likely. Then the clerk said something about "just wait until you have kids, and she didn't respond at all. It was somewhat awkward. The day then went on as normal. There were also a multitude of dirty jokes made. At one point she told us "You just want to see me naked don't you". I said, "Don't make me lie to that question" and she just laughed.
Anyway, what are your opinions? I want more than a friendship, but at the same time, If rejected I don't want to lose the friendship as she is really close.