Why did she play me like this?!

[girl68]

So long as you pay any! attention to her the more she'll mess with you- that much I can most certainly promise you.

[redcomet]

So long as you pay any! attention to her the more she'll mess with you- that much I can most certainly promise you.

i am doin ma best to pay more attention to her. Its just skool and extracurricular activities are really limiting ma chances. She used to go home alone, it would have been a great chance. But i got other stuff to do =\ now shes going home with her bfd.
although its definite that School > girls. This is a really big distraction

[66mustanggt]

PM me and let me tell you what to do

[redcomet]

PM me and let me tell you what to do

i cant, i cannot PM til i have 15 posts, i only have 8 =\

[girl68]

i am doin ma best to pay more attention to her. Its just skool and extracurricular activities are really limiting ma chances. She used to go home alone, it would have been a great chance. But i got other stuff to do =\ now shes going home with her bfd.
although its definite that School > girls. This is a really big distraction

OMG...

I'm saying DON'T pay attention to her. She ain't leave bf for ya- not a chance. You're her daily dose of ego boost- nothing more.

[redcomet]

OMG...

I'm saying DON'T pay attention to her. She ain't leave bf for ya- not a chance. You're her daily dose of ego boost- nothing more.

plz elaborate, wuts ego boost?

[redcomet]

GUYS, THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELPS!!!

I DECIDED TO LET IT GO. I will not do anything actively to her. I will try to forget about her overtime. And if she comes up to me, i will take it, yet this is very much not likely to happen.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND THNX FOR READING ALL THESE

[redcomet]

UPDATE: before i end all this, I MUST TELL HER MY FEELINGS. IN ORDER TO GET IT ALL OUT OF ME. so w.e happens after i tell her, i am going to feel better !

[girl68]

ohhh snap you're gonna get burned.

[MerryH]

^^Yeah.

I thought you decided to let it go. Telling her isn't letting it go.

But do let us know how it turns out, even though you really should let it go.

[redcomet]

^^Yeah.

I thought you decided to let it go. Telling her isn't letting it go.

But do let us know how it turns out, even though you really should let it go.

im telling her b/c i cant hide it inside my heart. Saying it out to her and end it once and for all is a better way to say it ;D

[girl68]

He's young, he'll have to learn this one the hard way.

[redcomet]

ok , as expected, i am REJECTED :'(
this is part of wut i wanted anyway, to kinda cut my feelings.

She said "o i dunno wut to say," "this happened a lotta times before,"
then i said, "i think its better if i leave u "
she said "im the type who i wannt ppl to be happy around me, do watever u feel happy to do"
She said"if u still wanna be fds im ok"
She also said " i like you as a friend, but not like..." then she said shes gonna go the other way and she just left

so this is basically wut happened
though i know this is gonna happen mostly and its sad. I feel like i got my burden off and feel somewut sad.

my friend says that she is too overconfident and theres seems to be no chance since she didnt even show "enthusiasm" when i said it. Like "nononon, i like u as a fd", instead she said "do w.e u feel happy". Thus she desnt even c me as an important fd . SO he says let go and never speak to her again, and its just a waste of time try to get her.

so i think this is going to be awkward afterwards when i c her rite?
should i even talk to her ever again? or pretend nothing has happened and continue to do so?

[redcomet]

my fd said this morning before i speak to her that i WILL regret i told her about these

now i feel a lot lighter and less stress thou i am rejected.
But was it the rite thing to do?

[girl68]

Well I told you so.


I think yes, it's gonna be awkward and no, you shouldn't talk to her anymore.