hey

so i've decided to be more proactive in terms of getting dates.....ie approaching more women.

however, i heard from my attractive lady friend that within the first hour of her new job at her bookstore, she had three guys ask for her number!

so my question is, as a guy do you just need to suck it up and ask girls for their numbers, even though you're probably the 1000th guy to do so, or should you seek other environments to meet women? or both? because i have asked girls in bars/cafess etc and got the whole "oh god, another one" expression.