lately my gf of one year has been very frigid. It only started a month ago. I don't know if it's work (she doenst have a good job, or busy or depressed.. She used to be so happy when we talked about marriage, now she's just cold. I'm lucky if I get a text she initiates. A phone call? been weeks. The only thing that keeps me alive is we still go out on the weekends.
I've been trying to cheer her up for the whole month. pretend nothings wrong. but i sense it everytime. she's strangely silent even when we go out. Still, I'm not gonna say anything or even ask her. 1) it's likely somethign i cant help with. 2) I also dread hearing something I don't want to. I'm just hoping to weather out her foul mood and it'll go away.
a few days ago, I called her. Instead of being overjoyed, she was rather emotionless. I asked her whose baby she was, playfully to cheer her up. she said her mom's. I asked her a few more times and she giggled and didnt say anything.
Last time I'm asking that question. I've decided I'm just gonna tell her she's my sweetie.
I haven't changed anything I used to do. I still love her very much. I figured I cant change or get mad or confront her. It almost feels as if shes backing out and our relationship is collapsing. I don't want to hear about her problems or any other nonsense. We've been together over a year, we should be working towards marriage and saving money and dreams of us together, not dealing with this emotional garbage.
any advice ? please help! thanks